Note: This piece of article is basically intended for young women and ladies of my age group but well no harm if guys read and drop their valuable comments too

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It’s my last month here at TPS and I have been working forever more diligently than this past year…guess the feeling of no strings attached sort of gives you the boost and liberty to work at ease. Deciding to quit my job wasn’t an easy decision and I am sure most of us ladies out there face this confusion when they are getting married and are unsure of almost everything …But to me this is the right decision!….and this does not mean that I advocate ladies sitting at home and doing nothing besides cooking and putting goop on their faces ….

No my point of view is merely that when u are starting into a life, u ought to give it ur full, undivided attention so that u can understand the novelty of it all and mould yourself accordingly. Many of my friends and colleagues suggested I should have taken an extended leave…but I thought that knowing that I had this thing at my back I would be more prone to cling to it and if I ended up resigning anyway at the end of leave that would be like breaching a commitment I had made with my firm of returning back while they held my position and hire no new resources…. It’s like maybe these two to three months while you enjoy the roasts and drinks at wedded blitz parties thrown for you, someone out there might just be looking desperately for a means to earn his or her bread.

Office life is like a full time thing, it requires you give it it’s due attention unaware of the sliding hands of the clock or wondering if you ironed your husband’s evening clothes or not:-P Well no I am not sure if that always happens because I have seen many a smart ladies, married, who work at office and at home….but I have seen myself…I work at office and yeah man enjoy the luxuries at home….Akhir piari Amma hain na  

Argh this article seems to be only opening up more arguments than I am bracketing close…and I only just wanted to say that if you have confidence in your abilities and potential and are lucky enough to develop an understanding with your partner later on and decide that you can juggle two or more responsibilities then you should not be very much afraid of leaving your job initially…..because you can always get another one …..or your current employers can always hire you back when u are ready. Also in the meanwhile there are always those great freelance opportunities that you can work for right from home….Oh there are a dozen things that you can do, provided you have that… umm… ‘gumption’ (hehe thnx Saqib for the addition to my vocab) to not let your brilliant brain go to waste….. It’s just that in the beginning I think the new people with whom u are getting associated should be given that prime importance and respect because they are making you their prime object of attention….and as things go by….as time flies you can always get what you want provided you always have the purity of intention, thoughts and will